RIP - my buddy 1911/Duane Wellington just passed away

[0face]

Mark, that photo is awesome.

Duane evidently thought so as well. I found that out after Duane died when Maralee told me that he had that as his screensaver for the longest time. So much so that they included that photo in the funeral service program.

The only reason we were at that spot was that Duane wanted to try a new road...as he always did. As nice as that photo turned out, it pales in comparison to how it was in 360 degree real time. I take no credit for that photo at all. The scene was amazing.... Coming out of the mist and fog and rising about it all into a crystal blue sky, clouds below, distant ridges... and that silhouetted tree.

That's a calendar picture buddy.

[Geezer]

I'm certain that I met Duane a few times, but I don't remember him from that, I remember him more from reading your posts Wheattie. Sorry to lose another FJR rider and especially sorry that you lost a close friend.

[wheatonFJR]

FYI, these posts are not about me at all, but if I reflect on them it is only to show the pain involved. I think Duane’s passing hit me especially hard because of a couple things
-We rode often together
-Had already made plans for a long trip to Colorado in 2023 and had plans for many more
-I just really liked this guy, and to get a laugh or guffaw out of him was gold
-I think Jason’s passing less than a year before hadn’t had a chance to fully process yet, and this just felt like an extreme case of piling on. I miss them both immensely. Time has not yet healed either wound.

I have to be careful when texting Maralee, because I don’t want my grief to compound hers. A recent review of this thread was a blessing and a curse. Great memories, but extremely sad at times.

Maralee has it real tough compared to how I’m feeling, so continue to remember her.

I try to remember that day in April last year…when y’all showed up from far and wide for her. I lean on that memory.

To my friend Duane, wish you were here.

[wheatonFJR]

I have mentioned in another thread that Maralee is at a point where she can part with Duane's bike. Griff is assisting me in getting it up to my place in Travelers Rest. After I clean it up a bit, I will open a for sale thread here at Riders.

Here is the 07 FJR and trailer that will soon be posted for sale:

[wheatonFJR]

Went on a little ride today to honor Jwilly and 1911. It was supposed to be longer. I ended up just going to the Cherohala and assorted twisty roads between there and home, due to big delays from road construction. Maybe I'll try again another time...but the Cherohala was special to both of these fine men, so this may have to do for now.


Heading out in twilight.


BRP Highest Elevation


Turkey Creek Overlook


My riding shirt. Both Jwilly and 1911 were on watch today. I kept them busy.


The miles today were about 390.


Jwilly's LD Delivery Special is making room for 1911's FJR and mcy trailer. Griff and I go get those tomorrow so I can begin the cleanup for selling for Maralee.

[Hppants]

Thank you, Mark for sharing your rememberence with us. I hope Maralee and Duane's family are "getting along", whatever that might mean. Thinking about Duane fondly. He reminds me that you can say a lot by saying a little. That quiet people can also be quite personable. And true to your soul love is all you really need.

But moreover, Pants - we only get one life, and it goes so fast. Don't waste it.